Dealing With A Hot And Cold Guy

Every woman is bound to come across a guy who runs hot and cold. The hot and cold men are the ones who get close to you, then pull away, then get close to you again and then pull away again. Imagine One week they are calling you and texting you and other next week, they disappear and you feel completely rejected and alone. It’s like they are playing hide and seek with your emotions. Men like that are not good for your state of mind. They can easily drive your crazy because you don’t know what they are up to. Si jamano bi talu makor

So what is the deal with these guys? Are they playing games? It is most likely that these men are unsure if they want to be in the relationship, they are being wishy washy and the bottom line is that they do not really know what they want. Reaching out to them is only reinforcing the cold behavior. Giving them space is the best way to communicate that you are not okay with the hot and cold antics.  You need to say them that if it’s not you homey then it’s somebody else. Uhmm rang bi dafa goudi....next!! You know that saying “don’t put all your eggs in one basket” exactly. Date other guys and act like the hot commodity that you truly are.

If he comes around and start shaping up, then great! If not, you did yourself a favor by cutting him loose because he was only wasting your time and playing with your heart. You deserve to be treated with respect period!!! bul ken johh stress