Pleas read because you might learn a thing or two. I find it very educative and interesting, it's not meant for only married women by the way.... Enjoy!!!!
1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husbnad is not wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home -pleacing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of women rights to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from the office to be at home for that should be the safest and coolest place on earth for him.
5. Modern- day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equlity to turn around and become the de facto head of the tantamount to playing with fire. If you destory your home, soon you will be the boss of your empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets the feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the necks wants without protest.
7. A wife that does not pull away from friend's influence and advice or even from control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuses of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing etc. Within 5 years of marraige, people start wondering if the wife is the husband's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is but when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present you and ignored them and settled for the former you. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions, you go to bed wearing grandmother's clothes. Why play with your marriage? Love is not about looks, we know but looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the personn being disfugured by an accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, "not in the mood", you are a joker, a serious comedian.
10. If your children suddenly become more impotant to you than your husband then you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions then you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to WOW her sweetheart. A girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet massages and calls. Are you your husbands girlfriend in word or indeed??
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