If You Must Then Make it Worth Your While

This is probably a controversial post but i just had to say it. I am not endorsing sleeping with a married man. Heck no!. That's something i will not do because i know what it feels like to have your husband cheat on you. However, the reality is that a lot of ladies do these days, knowingly or unknowingly. For a lady who knows that she's sleeping with a married man, why is she doing it if not for personal gain.
 Okay so why i'm i writing about this? I know couple of people who are dating married men in fact some are friends with the wives. Dating a married man is like a fetching water in an basket with holes. Some explain how they are fed up of dating single guys and their games, how is still amounted to sleeping with them for nothing and it even hurts more when a single man messes you around. Well true but they conveniently forgot about the bit where the chances of having a meaningful relationship with a single man is far higher then that of a married man.
Anyways you just can't convince some women to abandon their quest of sleeping with married men so most of the time i ask this question"what's in for you"? and some have the mind to say "no, i don't intend to ask him for anything lest he thinks i'm a prostitute", Hello! should you care what he thinks? A lot of these men see Gambian girls as easy anyways and for him to make advances at you i'm sure he's willing to pay his way through, so why would you let him get away with it and give him free p****?
 In my opinion it makes no difference if a woman has decided to sleep with a married man , then she much be gaining something from him. I mean why let the man win both ways? If he wants a mistress then let him pay for it. It makes you no prostitute as long as you are not putting out for many men at the same time in exchange for personal gain. Although perhaps there's some self esteem issues going on sleeping with a married man in the first place. Really, ladies put a price on it if you decide not to hoard your goods.

#TBT# Gabriel Union

She shared this picture on her instagram page today. Doesn't she look adorable ??

Tonto Dikeh Rocking Her Traditional Outfit

I'm not a big fan of Tonto but i must say she looks stunning in her traditional outfit.

The Beauty of Sisterhood

When one talks about sisterhood, some think it's about having the same DNA but to me sisterhood means something totally different. To me sisterhood is a bond between girls that is deeper than friendship. It's means having your girl's back. It means been there for your girl. So what i want to know is, why women of this generation think throwing insults, going on Facebook to publicly disgrace a sister is appropriate? Some of us do the best we can to bring a sister down when you should be there to lift her even when she thinks she wouldn't find her way, give her a hand and help her get to her destination. What do i gain from bringing a sister down? Absolutely nothing. The reason why most of us have been in the same place for years is because we keep fighting each other, we keep pushing each other to the ground and at the end of the day neither of us moves.

Sisterhood is about doing the little things to make a sister happy
Sisterhood is about letting a sister know she can count on you for anything
Sisterhood is about sharing sorrows and happiness with a sister
Sisterhood is about complimenting a sister
Sisterhood is about sharing dreams and achieving goals with a sister
Sisterhood is about being a sister's keeper

Never leave a sister hanging
Never talk bad about sister
Never try to bring a sister down

Don't walk in front of me and be my leader
Don't walk behind me and be my follower
Walk beside me and be my SISTER
So ladies lets try and work with each other to keep the sisterhood strong.

The Bitter/Sweet Experience of Becoming A Woman

Wave after wave, the pain washes over me, from the pit of my lower abdomen, down to the top of my thighs, the whole length of them, my knees, calves, slowly over my ankles, and to my toes, making them curl up of their own volition, eliciting a small cry from me. Then slowly, it makes its way back up, gradually, retracing its now weak, but still painful path over my body, back to the pit whence it emanated, to gather more strength and move upwards. This time to, my belly, my ribs. I feel it going over my diaphragm, my already aching breasts, and up to my jaw, making me clench my teeth again and again.
Then it recedes, gradually, and I feel sweet relief.

Little Havana, The Newest Bar In Town

Looking for a place to chill, relax and enjoy a captivating view?? well Little Havana is the place to be. It's a new bar at the Senegmbia strip. It's a bar with a difference and standards. Grand Opening this Friday and your first drink is on the house....Pass the word around...i will be there

Keri Hilson, Pregnant or Not??

Keri announces that she will be taking a leave of absence from music so as to concentrate on her new family after denying that she is not pregnant. Pregnancy is not something you can hide boo. Serga Ibaka is one lucky man or it is the other way round?? Congrats to her anyways