This is probably a controversial post but i just had to say it. I am not endorsing sleeping with a married man. Heck no!. That's something i will not do because i know what it feels like to have your husband cheat on you. However, the reality is that a lot of ladies do these days, knowingly or unknowingly. For a lady who knows that she's sleeping with a married man, why is she doing it if not for personal gain.
Okay so why i'm i writing about this? I know couple of people who are dating married men in fact some are friends with the wives. Dating a married man is like a fetching water in an basket with holes. Some explain how they are fed up of dating single guys and their games, how is still amounted to sleeping with them for nothing and it even hurts more when a single man messes you around. Well true but they conveniently forgot about the bit where the chances of having a meaningful relationship with a single man is far higher then that of a married man.
Anyways you just can't convince some women to abandon their quest of sleeping with married men so most of the time i ask this question"what's in for you"? and some have the mind to say "no, i don't intend to ask him for anything lest he thinks i'm a prostitute", Hello! should you care what he thinks? A lot of these men see Gambian girls as easy anyways and for him to make advances at you i'm sure he's willing to pay his way through, so why would you let him get away with it and give him free p****?
In my opinion it makes no difference if a woman has decided to sleep with a married man , then she much be gaining something from him. I mean why let the man win both ways? If he wants a mistress then let him pay for it. It makes you no prostitute as long as you are not putting out for many men at the same time in exchange for personal gain. Although perhaps there's some self esteem issues going on sleeping with a married man in the first place. Really, ladies put a price on it if you decide not to hoard your goods.
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