Five Tips To Help You Know If She's Thee "Lady"

Now I know some of ladies wouldn't like what I'm about to say but I'm just looking out for my brothers. It's very hard to find thee "perfect lady" so when you think you have found her you still need to know if she's all about you or your wallet. So here are five tips to help you know if she's REAL.....

Don't Let Her Meet Your Friends_ yet
It is always best to keep your new woman away from your good buddies at the start because you do not want them to reveal things about you that you'd rather keep her in the dark about.

Don't Flatter Her Too Much
While it's true that you will have to do some flattering in your initial flirtations, keep it toned down. The worst thing you can do is lay on the complements too thick at the beginning. Rather then inflating her head, see if she enjoys your company without an accompanying ego massage.

Be Mysterious But Not Weird
Don't share too much information about yourself or your family right away. Your woman will keep you guessing about her so you need to do the same. Maintaining some intrigue keeps the spice in dating. Let her tease information out of you "slowly". Make her think that she's "winning" the game, even as you control the flow of information. Just make sure you don't get too creepy about it. 

Limit Your Spending
One of the best ways to know if she's a keeper is to find out how much money she expects you to spend on her. At the start take her to places where you don't have to spend much. This will give you a chance to figure out whether she's all about you or your wallet. Mind you, don't cheap out completely or she'll think you're a bum.

Resist Jumping on Her Bed Early
Aside from the fact that withholding yourself will keep her wanting more, this rule also shows her that you're a man who isn't ruled by his loins. Don't hold back entirely, though, kiss her passionately as of you were going to make love, then pull away. This will not only heighten the sexual tension but it's also a big turn-on for her. And when you finally decide to do the deed, your patience and self control will end up paying huge dividends in the bedroom.