Thursday, 23 May 2013

There Is No Such Thing As Mr Right


You might have a list like this " sexy, rich, hot, smart, likes his mum, tall-issh". My friend you need to wake up and face reality. There is no such thing as Mr Right or Mr Perfect. There is no such thing as a perfect person for anybody and even if they are perfect now, they won't be in five or tens years time. Continue after the cut....

   Ladies it's high time we change our list to "i can get along with, cares for me, feel the chemistry, respects me". Even if he plays around, at the end of the day all that matters is that fact that he respects you enough not to flaunt it. He loves you, let him. He won't sweep you off your feet but he will catch you when you fall. He is not suppose to make you happy, he is suppose to make you happier. Stop looking for Mr Right and settle for Mr not so bad.
    Every woman I know no matter how successful and ambitious, how financially and emotionally secure feels panic, coupled with desperation if she hits 30 and finds herself unmarried. Some had the chance in their twenties to settle for Mr not so bad but they were busy looking for Mr Right.
    Unlike women, men don't have a big clock ticking. Time and biology is on their side so they can play around and take forever looking for Mrs Right (mission impossible 3) because at the end of the day, he does not have to think about menopause.
     To me, marriage is a not a passion-fest (some might disagree), it's a partnership formed to run a very small and often boring business. It's all about compromise and understanding. So ladies Mr Right is derived from musical theater and Disney. We need to make our own Mr Right not find him.

1 comment:

  1. Good advice! But leave the "Even if he plays around" LOL

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