The beauty of Sisterhood |
In all honesty, every woman knows that there will always be another woman who is prettier, sexier, more intelligent, more successful and basically has what you perceive to be a better life than yours. Will tearing them down make them less pretty, less sexy, less intelligent or less successful? Absolutely not. Will tearing them down change things for you?? It could give you the false confidence boost that momentarily masks your insecurities, however in the long run you'll just end up ignoring a nasty deteriorating disease. I learnt that many insecurities i had, needed to be worked on and put an end to by me, anything else was only a temporary distraction.
I am not suggesting that all of us should like each other but we can be a bit more respectful to each other. Being a woman in a man's world is already tough, but being turn apart by someone that's probably facing the same challenges you are can harsh situation even more.
So ladies next time you see another woman and your hackles begin to rise slightly because you perceive her as a threat or she intimidates you, take a moment out give her props and know that you are wonderful and uniquely you. Something that only you can be. If you can't complement someone then don't say inappropriate things just save yourself the stress and don't say nothing at all. We are sisters so we should be have each others backs, it's call Sisterhood
Advice - Don't tear someone down just because you know they are what you aspire to be.
I really love this! It will be great if more women could empower each other rather than succumb to such petty things like gossip and jealousy. Like you said, I think it all boils down to insecurity. Some women perceive other women as threats and hate on them simply because they themselves feel inadequate.
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